When your first date doesn’t want a second date

I matched with a guy on Hinge, and he asked me on a virtual Zoom date.

We spoke for roughly 3 hours, was a nice chat, he seems like a nice guy.

He text me three days later and said he had a good time, but he didn’t feel a real connection, and that I seemed wonderful, and wished me luck.

If this had happened to me a year ago, I would have probably been crushed. Self doubting, wondering what I did wrong.

But you know, not every date has to lead somewhere. All in all, I had a good time chatting to someone new, and it was nice to be told they’re not looking for more rather than being ghosted.

So ladies/gents – try not to overthink things when your date doesn’t want to continue. Sometimes these things happen and it’s ok! It doesn’t change how great you are as a human, and move onto the next one ❤️

Edit: I think some people are perhaps misinterpreting my post. I’m not blaming the dude at all, he was a nice guy, parted ways very amicably and everyone’s fine! Just wanted to give out a different perspective that sometimes people part ways and that’s ok, noones fault, especially after only one date!

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