Is it weird that I don’t mind being friendzoned?

Sometimes I find a girl I like. I talk to them and eventually ask them out. Sometimes I get rejected and most of them tell me they just want to be friends.

But I don’t ever feel bad about that. I guess I sort of feel relief that I have an answer. I would rather ask, get an answer than to never ask and stress about it all the time. As for attraction, as soon as I am told they want to be friends it’s like a switch is flipped in my mind and I start seeing them as a friend immediately instead of a potential partner.

The reason I ask my question is because as far as I am aware this isn’t considered “normal” behavior. Maybe it’s because I am Asexual. I do feel lonely and a desire for a relationship that friends cannot provide but I am also very chill about it I guess.

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