I’m 21f and I find that men come in too hot too quickly, and I can’t match the energy.

Often I find that when I start talking with guys, a few days to weeks in, they start being very clingy and they text me every morning saying ‘good morning beautiful’ and saying that I make their day when they talk with me. Even if I have never even met them in person.

I just really don’t know how to respond. They don’t make my day when the text me. I barely even know them. Am I being heartless? I usually just say ‘that’s so sweet!’ But I feel so uncomfortable. I think I just take longer to warm up to people. How should I approach this?

Edit: I am looking for relationships not hookups and I’ve never been in a relationship before.

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