I said, no, to a 2nd date and I couldn’t be happier about my decision

So I went out with this girl last night. The date went okay. She’s very beautiful, good career, and she liked me. But I did not feel a connection at all with her. She was asking me questions like a job interviewer that made me feel a little uncomfortable. When she was talking, I felt like she was talking AT me instead of TO me. She said that she wanted to see me again and gave me her phone number. I’m someone who is always up for a 2nd date. But today I texted her that I didn’t feel a connection and wished her good luck. She appreciated my candor and said good luck to me too. I’m putting this out there for people who want to pound that square peg into that round hole. If it doesn’t feel right, move on. 2 years ago when I started dating I would have tried to make it work with her. But I decided that I can’t settle. It would have been easy to settle with her. But it wouldn’t have been right for me and I would have ended up unhappy. Make sure the people you meet make you feel special and that you’re happy to be around them.

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