HOW DOES A GUY MEET A GIRL TO GET TO KNOW HER AND ASK HER OUT???

Most people like me if they get to know me. The problem I have is I have no way to get to know any women. The last time it was remotely easy to meet women was in university which was years ago now.

Here are the main strategies I’ve tried:

  • Through friends – Yeah sure, but once you know all your friends’ friends there’s nothing else.

  • Online – I can’t get any significant matches or interest no matter how many profiles I make or who takes my pics or gives me feedback.

  • Bars/Clubs – Most women in my experience give grim expressions, one word answers, say “I have a boyfriend,” or ignore me if I try talking to them.

  • Malls/Streets – Feels like I’m really annoying people during their day and I’ve heard of mall/local security being called on guys for approaching this way.

  • Meetups – I went to some meetups for my main hobby (playing music) and they were all guys.

  • Volunteering – I volunteered for years when I was younger (not to meet women) but never came close to a date from it.

Is there something I’m missing or is this just impossible and I should give up?

Thanks.

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