I was ‘dating’ someone and after we ‘broke up’ he referred to me as a spammer and called me too clingy. After what he had said to me, every time i began to like someone or someone began to show interest in me, i use to always question if i was being too clingy or annoying, i began to eventually shut myself down every time i began liking someone.
Today i find it really hard to accept affection from an romantic interest without either cringing, doubting myself in some way or ask if they actually like me or are they pretending. It Isn’t that i do not like affection, im just afraid of embarrassing myself and not knowing how to respond or what to do without saying something sarcastic.
Does anybody relate to me?