Had my first date since an abusive ex-fiancee. Light at the end of the tunnel.

I think this may be the right tag.

As the title says, today i had my first date since I left/was left by/broke up with an ex-fiancee who after retrospection, was emotionally abusive. The ex did a bunch of things that I now realize was toxic and did in fact mess me up for awhile.

But I put myself back out there, realized I was self sabotaging any relationships that formed, and just recently fully put my foot in the water and had an actual date.

It went really well, and 5 1/2 hours of just talking which felt like only 2 hours tops later, we exchanged numbers and are planning on a second date already.

And she kissed me. That was nice.

The main point of this post is to just say: No matter what darkness you crawled or dragged or walked or ran out of, there is more light so keep it up guys. It gets better.

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