I went out on a blind date with a guy two times. On our third date (still getting to know him well), he said “It’s our third date, that means after this we mess around. Do you want to mess around?” I was taken back and shocked. I told him “I am interested, but I just got out of a bad relationship where I was cheated on and I want to take it slow to get to know and trust the guy”. He said “you can trust me. Cheating happens. So do you want to mess around?”
Is this what dating is like now? Am I a prude?