Do woman find it unattractive if a man doesn’t have a stable job, a house, a car, or even know which country he wants to settle down in etc?

Edit: I’m 33, forgot to add

I only just started saving a decent amount of money in the last couple of years as I was behind in my career. My profession is software developer so decent in terms of salary, progression, opportunities etc which I have been doing for 5 years.

But recently I’ve just moved to a new country and really want to live in several more countries for a few months in the next few years because didn’t do much traveling in my 20s.

I also quit my job to focus on using my savings to trade and invest full time (with the help of some friends who do it full time), but if it doesn’t work out it shouldn’t be hard for me to get a software job again.

I feel like I’m on a good path financially, but I’m not settled. I don’t have a car or a house (although I do have enough money for a deposit for a house which I haven’t used yet) and also I’m not sure even which country I want to settle in. I’m from the UK, but need more sunshine (lol) and now have moved to portugal but not sure if it’s a country I see myself living in forever.

I’m worried that girls will expect a guy my age to know these things already, not be wanting to live in different countries, have a house and car etc. Or they wonder why you aren’t already married or have a girlfriend.

Or maybe I just need to find a girl who wants to travel too and understands this lack of stability is something that happens when you want to travel.

Or maybe having a girlfriend a lot younger than me would make it less of an issue because she would also likely not have house, car etc

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